10 Golden Rules for Perfect Anal Sex

1- Anal Sex should never be attempted in the heat of the moment during regular sex. The anus needs to be loosed up and the woman needs to be ready for good anal sex. Just trying to push your penis into her bumhole will only result in pain for her and possibly for you.

2- Anal sex is always best around half an hour after she's been to the toilet and had a bowel movement. If she feels like she needs to go before anal sex then the chances of a shit stained cock are vastly increased. If she needs to go during anal sex then stop and let her go. It'll be better for both of you afterwards.

3- Faeces doesn't live in the lower bowel. It generally stays a bit further up, around 10 inches away from the anus so even the longest of cocks can enjoy safe and clean anal sex. An enema before anal sex can often help just clean the lower bowel.

4- Popping your anal cherry might hurt a little, much like the first time you had vaginal sex. It's new and sometimes a little uncomfortable. If you're a woman who fantasises about anal sex then let your imagination run wild before you actually have anal sex. The thrill of anal sex and losing your anal virginity is often enjoyed more when you really are up for it.

5- Relax and enjoy the moment. The sphincter muscle tends to naturally tighten when something, whether a finger, a cock or a sex toy, tries to enter it. Just relax and you'll feel the pleasure. It will also hurt less when you relax. Start small if it is your first time enjoying anal sex. A finger or small sex toy can help loosen the sphincter muscle before he enters you with his manhood.

6- Lube it and lube it again. Then apply a little more lube. You will feel more with lube and there will be less chance of hurting yourself or him with the friction during anal sex. Use quality lubes and apply plenty of it. Along with 5, start small. A finger or two is the ideal way to get the lube into your asshole. Cover his cock with lube too before he enters you.

7- Keep the lube to hand. You may need more of it during anal sex. Lube naturally dries out and if you're enjoying a long period of anal sex some more lube may be needed.

8- Make him go slow. If you've used fingers or anal sex toys to get your asshole loosened up a little then his cock may not hurt as much when he enters your ass. However, a larger cock will stretch you a little more. Let him enter you then hold his cock in place as you relax. Pushing in a little at a time then pulling out again is the best way to get used to his cock in your ass. He will enjoy it too. Pushing in a little more each time and withdrawing can also build the sexual excitement of anal sex.

9- Don't let him fuck your ass until he's balls deep inside you and you feel turned on and comfortable. Keep the first motions slow. Some women like their men to keep still so they can set the initial pace. Use his cock like your favourite dildo until you really start to enjoy the anal sex.

10- Enjoy yourself. Relax and feel the sensations of anal sex being different from vaginal sex. Many women enjoy orgasms from anal sex and find themselves wanting more. Rub your pussy and clit to really build up a big anal sex orgasm and feel the love. He probably won't last too long inside your ass.